and like, here's the thing, i can absolutely create a bullet list of queer trends and historically queer subcultures with their own fashion and you can follow that and its 100% fine but i feel like this is only a partial answer to a partially asked question
you can't control what other people will think of you and you'll drive yourself mad trying
i mean you could probably stop a few people from having ANY thoughts permanently but its more sustainable to just decide youre hot and literally who can stop you? whats the worse outcome? oh no, xi gained self confidence! how grotesque!
Generalist Hometown instance with a strong focus on community standards. No TERF, no SWERF, no Nazi, no Centrist.