Some people find it ridiculous that someone could possibly still be hurt, decades later by a flippant remark or insult, but it happens literally all the time.
You never know when you're going to be that person who causes that trauma for someone. I've probably done it myself. Please be careful what you say about others
Generalist Hometown instance with a strong focus on community standards. No TERF, no SWERF, no Nazi, no Centrist.